This morning I read this entire chapter book to Pipiri. All 76 pages! And it was the best book I have ever read to her! And we have read a lot of books!!
Typically I read maybe 2 chapters per day when we have a lengthy chapter book we are working on.
But today I literally couldn't put it down.
I absolutely had to know what was going to happen.
And I have never done this before with a kids books. Never!
If you have not read The Hundred Dresses you must do so!
If you have a daughter you must read it!
Even though this book was written in the 1940's it is relavent today.
Basically the book is about being teased...being bullied...not standing up for what's right...
This book lead to so many wonderful discussions with Pipiri.
We talked about times I had been teased.
How some people are not nice.
How she should always stand up for what's right.
How I wish I could go back in time and stand up for things I knew were right but that I didn't have the courage to do so.
How it took me a loooong time to get this courage.
Times I wish I had stood up when people I knew were being made fun of.
How my feelings had been hurt when I was younger and girls and boys called me "Olive Oil"..."Zit Face"...told me I was too skinny...flat chested...told me I looked like a zipper...told me they didn't like me...or that I was not their friend...
I told her I wish I had stood up for my friend when another child acted awful because she didn't like the Christmas gift my friend had given her....my sweet friend cried and cried...knowing that her gift was not accepted kindly. I told Pipiri I did nothing...and I wish that I had.
I told her I had been mean to girls...I had talked behind people's backs...I had done the wrong thing many times in my life.
I told her that I had been the bully in my life. And that I deeply regret it and today I try to be a great friend to the people that I know. That I don't talk about them behind their backs and that I treat people respectfully.
I told her that I (as an adult) have stood up for friends when others are speaking ugly about them. I have told them that the other person is my friend and that I don't appreciate them talking about them.
I told her even today people can be mean. People have hurt my feelings. That I have been made fun of and that women today have made fun of the way I look or the clothes that I have worn.
When my husband got home today he too joined in our discussions.
He told her he too had been the bully, had been bullied, and had not stood up for friends when others made fun of them.
The discussions this book brought were unbelievable!
Girls from 5 to 95 will enjoy this amazing book! (And actually Brad truly enjoyed the discussions with us...)
It is wonderfully written, thought provoking...and simply amazing!
Buy The Hundred Dresses here! You won't regret it!!
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